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21 WAYS TO LOOK LIKE A CHEATER

Better known as “a few things to watch for if you’re suspicious”

Allison Divine
4 min readSep 3, 2019

It’s a sad reality that people are not always monogamous in relationships.

I have compiled a quick list of obvious ways for a cheater to know how he or she can be identified.

Photo by Wilson Sánchez on Unsplash
  1. Hiding your cell phone screen so your spouse can’t see it.

2. Jumping or even slightly jerking your phone hand when your spouse walks up behind you.

3. Not being accountable with your money. Big money decisions should always be made together.

4. Being (or pretending to be) overly jealous. Often the guilty party is suspicious of the other, or using the old “offense is the best defense” ploy.

5. Not answering your phone when your significant other calls.

6. Initiating Facebook messages/texts (or responding to them) to people of the opposite sex and HIDING it from your girlfriend or boyfriend. Nobody is saying you can’t talk to someone just because they are not the same gender as you are. The fact that you are being secretive about it is cause for concern.

7. Having a secret email.

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Allison Divine
Allison Divine

Written by Allison Divine

A maximalist in art and writing, I believe in embracing who you are! Email: allison@pinkhairandpajamabottoms.com Website: pinkhairandpajamabottoms.com

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